Whom to Blame ???

This is the modern tendency that to blame others to everything and anything. Some people blame or curse even God for their mistakes. Who is God? Is it a machine which always makes your life good and wonderful? This type of people simply neglect God in the time of their blissful life, in this time they will not mind God if he appear before them in flesh and bones, whereas in the time of difficulties, temptations, sadness and problems they begin to grumble towards Him. Their behavior towards their fellow beings will be same. Oh! What a pity! If we think some more deeply we can find that the base problem of my despair or sorrowfulness is my own problem or the problem with my attitude. Those who have studied history know that every person who has attained something, or to whom we respect as great man is the person who has changed his failure to the success. The great men could take the difficulties as the step stone towards luck. If we are going through their life we understand that not the circumstances rather than the way which or attitude which they took led them towards success. Let us take the example Jesus who the different circumstances (both joyful and sorrowful) of his life took as the same way. He could see the problems as the precisions gift of God the Father. He understood the reality that he can make the success of his life in this earth only through sufferings. He did not blame anybody for giving bad situations or creating difficulties throughout his life. So that he could attract many people with his imitative behavior. This is the only thing which made him a greatest in the world.

How must be our behavior towards the difficult situations? Only if we take these situations as our step stone towards the success, our life will become a blissful. But if we think that others or God is the cause of our suffering it may be harmful to our life. Then our life may lead us to the death of the failure. Off course sometimes there will be some type of fall from the side of others behind the failure of ours. But we have to learn to forgive them, So that our life will be more meaningful. Then only we will become real human beings..